Ek Ladki: A short poem

Seher ki thandi hawaon ki tarah
Ek saadgi hai uski aankhon mein
Ek nazakat hai uski jeene mein
Maasoomiyat se bhari hui
Ek Noor si ladki

Makaan choti hai
Lekin dil bada
Nasib se milti hui roti ko
Kisi aur ke naam mein karne ki
Himmat rakhti hui
Ek dildaar si ladki

Gham ki kali badal
Uske upar bhi hai
Lakin woh labon ki muskan
Ek karamat ki tarah 
sukoon si barish bana deti hai
Ek inaayat si ladki

Woh Zindagi se bharpoor
Ek ummeed ke saath
Waqt bhi guzar jayegi
Phir se khushiyan layegi
Ek Aafreen si ladki
©kaju_kd

LOVE AND IDEAS

What is Love? there are so many quotations on Love,we can find on Google and Anywhere else. If we mark,then we can find every quote is different from each other in some extent. We always choose the one with which we can relate and put it as our status or we just save those in our Gallery. No doubt all are talking about Love,but it is very clear that Love has no universal definition rather it is particular. All the problems in Love life are happening because people can not understand this basic thing. They can not because people always judge others by sitting on their own chair.   

                              We people may be similar in terms of physical and  racial characteristics but our inner views towards certain thing are always subjective because we all are socialized differently. Similarly,our way of showing Love is different.And conflicts occur,when we expect them to love us in the same way we are loving them. If our food patterns,way of dressing and talking,habits,choices etc can be different ,then it is something obvious that the way of showing Love can be different too. what we have to do,we should respect the differences . if we are not giving respect to someone else, then it is funny to expect the same.     

                   some people are so much expressive that they  make a handmade card and write all their feelings on it ,bring some flowers and chocolate and a beautiful gift and try their best to make someone feel special. Where as some are inexpressive, they are always there in your worries but unfortunately, they can not express properly so they seem abstracts. Some people believe in giving material gifts to show their love and some  believe in just writing letter and remembering them in prayers is the most beautiful way to show Love. Some friends will always call you to know about your well being and some occasionally to know about your well being but what matters they call you, for sure their ways are different but intentions are same,to make you feel loved. 

                      
                                             
                                        

The way of showing is different.Everyone has their own ideas of ideal love. It is completely okay to wait for your ideal love but it is not okay to disrespect someone else's ideas. Just because you can not understand and recognize their way of loving , it does not mean that they do not have Love. Everybody has their particular way of showing care, affection and empathy etc. Without Love,living Life is difficult and Everyone is living life with their own conceptions towards Love.It is okay,if you can not feel their Love but never say they are Loveless and heartless because it hurts a lot.People are extrovert ,introvert and ambivert and their Loves sometimes differ according to their personality. To have peace in life,we have to give respect to everyone and and still we can make choices of living life with our ideas of love.

                                            
Never feel regret of loving someone. Never expect them to love you in the same way you are loving them,find love in differences and if you do not like their ways, then you have all the right to leave them but with smiles and with no regrets and without disrespecting
them. And lastly do not let anyone to change your ways of loving because it defines you. In short expect less, Love more.You will definitely get all those love you are giving to others sometimes in an unexpected way from a completely unexpected person. And unexpected Love is beautiful..